Cancer coach Isabel Galiano practising yoga in nature
Cover Cancer coach Isabel Galiano practising yoga in nature

Breast cancer survivor turned cancer coach Isabel Galiano shares how cancer patients can support their medical treatment and the preventative measures we can all take to stay healthy

From cancer caregiver to cancer patient to cancer coach, Singapore-based Isabel Galiano has seen the disease from all sides. Her mother passed away from colon cancer aged 53, and just five years later, at the age of 32, Galiano was diagnosed with breast cancer. 

Two years after completing her breast cancer treatment, which included six months of chemotherapy and three months of daily radiotherapy, Galiano would hear the words that every former cancer patient dreads—it was back. A new tumour had appeared in her breast and a biopsy confirmed it was malignant. 

The second time around, Galiano was determined to approach her cancer in a more active way, complementing traditional medical treatments with practices that would support her emotionally and physically. 

Sixteen years on from her breast cancer recurrence, Galiano remains cancer free and since 2016 has been working as a cancer coach using her experiences to help others. 

“I discovered that the way you think, breathe, eat, move, sleep and handle stress can all impact your outlook and recovery. This has been an extremely powerful revelation, which motivated me to find ways to empower those in a similar position,” says Galiano, who is a certified Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, qualified functional medicine practitioner, certified yoga instructor, reiki practitioner and a member of the Association of Naturopathic Practitioners (UK). “Today, as a cancer coach, I strive to help others to thrive on their own healing journey.”

Here, she offers tips and advice to support the various stages of diagnosis, treatment and recovery that a cancer patient might face, as well as sharing preventative measures applicable to all.

On diagnosis

Get clarity around your diagnosis and treatment options: Uncertainty is often the most difficult aspect to cope with. Ask your doctors as many questions as you need to until you feel confident and informed about your choices and try to avoid searching online for information that may not be relevant or accurate for your case. 

Set boundaries: It’s exhausting to tell your story over and over again and to have to answer that question you dread: How are you today? Consider sending everyone an email or WhatsApp message: ‘This is what is happening at the moment. I’m not very responsive right now. It’s not personal. I will update you.’

Express yourself clearly and find the courage to ask for help: The cancer journey doesn’t come with a manual. Help the people that genuinely want to help you but have no clue how to. Try and understand what you need and express it in a way that will be productive and constructive. When someone asks you how you are feeling, for example, work with percentages. You can say, ‘Today I’m really feeling only about 20 percent [well]’, so they know that today they need to be a bit more mindful. Then on days where you feel good, express that: ‘Today I feel 80 percent [well]. I have energy, we can do something.’ 

Complementing traditional treatments

Sleep: I made sleep a huge priority and I’m still very protective around my sleep. If you sleep better, you just do better. People ask me what supplements they can take to strengthen their immune system, and I always say that the first thing to do is to get good sleep. Being sleep deprived impacts your mental, physical and emotional health, your productivity, your creativity ... the list goes on. Most people understand the length of sleep that’s necessary, but what is most effective is the quality of sleep. Unfortunately, spending so much time on [screens] and falling asleep with them disrupts our circadian rhythm and our ability to produce melatonin and with that our ability to have good deep sleep. The other mistake is not sleeping early enough—you get the most out of deep sleep when it’s between 11pm and 3am. Implementing good sleep habits and being consistent can make a tremendous difference. 

Exercise: Studies are very clear that for people undergoing treatment, particularly chemotherapy, those who keep physically active do much better in terms of side effects and recovery from chemotherapy, even if that’s just walking for 10 minutes [a day]. Do whatever you can. 

Nutrition: Nutrition is key to well-being, especially when facing high stress situations and cancer treatments, and nutritional needs can vary depending on your individual condition and treatment type. It's worth consulting a professional to help make the right nutritional decisions as eating the right foods can affect how you cope with side effects and how you recover. 

Self-talk: The way you talk to yourself makes a big difference. Listen to what you are telling yourself. Are you saying, ‘I’m exhausted. I really won’t be able to do anything today. I look horrible.’ Or, do you talk to yourself the way you would talk to a loved one that you want to support? Self-talk is there with you constantly and it impacts your mood, and your ability to look at things in a positive or negative way. 

Breathe: Research shows that deep breathing can immediately calm the nervous system. It’s a powerful and effective tool that is easy to learn and free—you don’t need an app, you don’t need a teacher. Learn some easy breathing techniques and they’ll be with you wherever you go. 

Connect with nature: For me, being outdoors is the best medicine. I love being around nature, hearing nature, touching nature. It gives me a lot of energy. Research shows that patients who have a plant or flowers in their room tend to recover faster than those who don't. And that if you have two people in the same room with the same diagnosis, the same prognosis, the one that is next to the window recovers faster. A connection with nature is very important in a healing journey.

Ground yourself: I love to talk about grounding—having your feet on the floor. You need to be careful if you are going through chemotherapy as you are at a higher risk of infection, but there’s scientific evidence to show that having your feet in direct contact with gravel, with mud, with grass can decrease levels of inflammation, regulate cortisol and bring you into a state of less stress.

Supporting those around you

Communicate: Be as clear as possible in what you need, and be forgiving and accepting that people don’t know how to help and there will be many missteps. Ask for help in the most precise way possible. For example, instead of saying that you need help with your children, be specific—'Please pick up my daughter at 3pm on Thursday'. That makes it easy for both of you.

Let it out: Sometimes you just need to talk and for women especially, talking can help to regularise emotions. If you just want to be listened to, remind people of that by starting with a disclaimer: 'I need to talk about something but I don’t want advice or recommendations—I just need you to listen'.

Life after cancer

Be patient: The biggest mistake is thinking that when your treatments end, life goes back to normal instantly. We hope for it, wish for it and long for it, but it takes time. And accepting that is the first step in the healing journey. Your body and mind went through a lot and it takes a while to recover from that. 

Fear is your friend: Use fear as your ally. Use that fear of recurrence as a reminder to take care of yourself, to go to your check-ups, to go to bed early, to not drink that alcohol, to exercise. Fear is here for a reason—to protect you, and you should embrace it. You won’t be able to make fear disappear completely so it’s better to have a positive attitude towards it.

The courage to question: Ask yourself ‘Why you think this happened? Why was your body not in a position to fight off these cancer cells?’ This is not to make you feel bad, but to consider what areas of life you might have neglected and that you can work on. We often see relationships, stress, or emotional well-being playing a role. If you believe that there was something that was detrimental to your health, you need to work on it. For me, I went through a period of long, intense stress due to my mother’s illness—I was the main caregiver but also the main provider, and I neglected my own health. I didn’t feel it was a priority to take care of myself. When I look back I was definitely severely sleep-deprived, and then there was the emotional aspect that I didn’t take seriously. And even exercise—I thought once or twice a week was enough. I was doing things, but the minimum that gave me a feeling that I was healthy, but once I started digging I realised it was not enough. 

Find moments of joy and laughter: Cancer can be a traumatic experience that affects our ability to enjoy life and have fun. However, recovering from cancer also means rediscovering the positive aspects of living and finding happiness in everyday moments, which is not only beneficial for mental well-being, but also for physical health as laughter and joy can boost the immune system and reduce stress.

Preventative measures

Risk factors: Smoking, alcohol and obesity all put you at higher risk of cancer. Also, if you have a family history of cancer, be more careful, particularly around when you have to start going for screenings

Sleep: We know how important sleep is in terms of supporting the immune system. Protect your sleep and make it a priority. 

Nutrition: Adopt a healthy and balanced diet and have an understanding of what you need in terms of nutrition. There’s no one-size-fits all-diet, but make sure you have variety, consume nutrient-dense foods and keep a healthy weight.

Exercise: Regular physical activity is associated with a lower risk of several types of cancer, including breast cancer. Exercise is also one of the best ways to reduce the risk of breast cancer recurrence according to many studies.

Self-care: For women especially, there’s this need to be a good mother, a good wife, a good sister, a good daughter, and these roles are often [seen as] more important than your own self-care. I work on this a lot with my clients—you should view self-care as an absolute necessity and not a luxury. Fill up your cup first, and everything that pours out of the cup you can give to others. Don’t feel bad when you take time to yourself or when you set boundaries and say no. Self-care is a must—you don’t have the luxury not to do it.

Recommended resources

Cancer is a complex and multifaceted disease that affects each individual differently; there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Therefore, it is important to be careful and critical when reading any book that claims to offer advice or solutions for cancer. However, there are many books that can provide useful insights and guidance on general topics related to health and wellness, such as diet, sleep, gut health, breathing and lifestyle. These books are not meant to replace medical advice or care, but to complement them and to empower cancer survivors to take charge of their own health. 

  • Food, What the heck should I eat by Mark Hyman: Explains the science behind different types of foods and how they affect our health, and offers practical tips on how to choose the best foods for our needs.
  • Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker: Reveals the vital role of sleep in our health, cognition, mood and longevity, and offers strategies on how to improve our sleep quality and quantity.
  • The Gut-Brain Connection by Emeran Mayer: Explores the intricate relationship between our gut and our brain, and how they influence each other and a person's mood, immunity, inflammation and disease.
  • Gut, the inside story of our body’s most under-rated organ by Giulia Enders: Provides a fascinating and humorous overview of our digestive system and how it affects our health.
  • Breath by James Nestor: Investigates the power of breathing and how it can improve our physical and mental health, performance and well-being.
  • The Blue Zones by Dan Buettner: Examines the lifestyles and habits of the people who live in the regions with the highest longevity rates in the world, and identifies the common factors that contribute to their health and happiness.
  • Earthing, the most important health discovery ever by Ober, Sinatra, Zucker: Introduces the concept of earthing or grounding, which is connecting with the earth's natural energy through direct contact with its surface, and how it can benefit our health.

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